Monday, 15 July 2013

Kiama's Charm no.4

After a most beautiful drive along the Mendocino coast we spend the night at the best of all Koa Kampgrounds: Manchester Beach!!


Kiama would have loved this place. Apart from memories of visiting friends in Manchester, UK it was close to a beach, littered with driftwood, itching to be used for an interactive group art installation. There was a big fire pit to gather around and exchange stories with other travellers or play a song or two on a guitar. Or if you were into some performing you could use the karaoke machine in the barn - luckily quiet after 10pm.



The plots were generous with lots of trees providing shade for those hot summer days.
 


I hung Kiama's Charm no.4 on a tap at Blue Sky Drive - RVsite 15



This quote was on the reception/shop building. I love it, as it also captures Kiama's short life for me:
"Life is not measured by the amount of breaths we take,
but by the people and places that take our breath away"

Thursday, 11 July 2013

Kiama's Charm - no.3

After staying the night at a  Koa campsite in Crescent City we had a little diversion through the beautiful Redwood National Park, where we visited the Trees of Mystery.
 

Highlights were the Skytrail which took us over the canopy of the giant pine trees and the Museum which housed an enormous private collection of Native American Art with lots of textiles to my delight, which I will post about in another blog.


We then carried on driving south on Highway 101 and stopped at McKinleyville viewpoint, just before exit 721 where I hung charm no. 3 on a fence. Unfortunately I couldn't make any photo's, as there were several people sitting in their parked cars and I didn't want them to see that I was leaving something on the wire fence. However, thanks to Google I could find a street view of the location, so you can have a look by clicking on the link here.

I chose this spot because the Pacific Ocean and the beach looked so inviting and although we didn't have time to walk all the way around the fence to go to the beach we could imagine Kiama running, in knickers and bra, for a quick plunge in the sea. She loved to swim in the sea, whatever the season, whatever the temperature.

Here she is in Winter - January 2011 in the sea in Guernsey




Kiama's Charm - no.2

Driving on Highway 101 along the Pacific Ocean we stopped at a scenic rest stop, between  Cape Blanco and Brookings. We had passed quite a few cyclists along this, for them challenging road, something Kiama would have embraced with all her heart.


 I tied the charm onto the railing of the viewing platform ovelooking the Natural Bridges Cove,
a little reminder of the arches and coves on the coast of Guernsey, where we spend many holidays visiting family.



  John placed a red flower on top in the hope to draw the eye to Kiama's Charm.



Kiama's Charm - Tribute Trail

I always liked the idea of treasure trails and leaving something behind for someone else to find, like Kiama did with the messages she left on parked bicycles. As the idea for this tribute trail in the USA only came to me a few days before we were going on holiday, I didn't have much time to think or prepare anything.
So I got an old Tupperware box an filled it intuitively with 22 pieces each of the following materials:

Empty sewing-thread reels (I never throw them away) they have so much history and so much potential. To me they look like the holder of a scroll and could tell several stories. The colour of thread it carried, the projects it was used for, the identity of the sewer who used it. For me the reel also connect my life to that of my mother and my daughter Kiama, passing on the love of sewing and creating from one generation to the next.



A variation of 22 wooden coloured beads from the time my daughters were small and we liked to make wooden bracelets and necklaces together.

Rectangle coconut bead pieces from a broken bracelet from Kiama which we found in a draw at her student room in Norwich. Her DNA might be still on it!

Red feathers. Red for the Love which connect us all.
My father-in-law used to collect some of the feathers of his chickens and dyed them in all kinds of colours with the intention to use them on his fishing trips on his boat on the English Channel around Guernsey. In tidying up the house, after his death, I took several bags home with me.
Going to America, thinking Native American Indians, I had to take some feathers with me.
To me feathers symbolise wind, flight, a lightness of being, a tickle, soft, spirit, a whisper....Kiama


22 Golden plastic snowflakes cut from a cheap Christmas decoration. Something glittery, sparkling, like her eyes, her laughs.

Some yards of blue cotton yarn - a leftover from a jumper I knitted in 1986 during the breaks of my shifts on a hospital ward in Breda in The Netherlands. The jumper was for a friend, John, who I secretly fancied and who later became my husband and father of my children. This August we will celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary.

Some yards of red/white string. Broken red - broken love. If I remember well, I got that string from a fellow textile artist and friend, who had also lost a child, suddenly and still so young. With this string I want to show my love and connection to all mothers who have lost a child. We are not alone.

A reel of strong red sewing thread to connect things together.

I also put a roll of double side tape, a set of labels, a role of plastic magic tape and a sharpy pen in the box.

Last but not least I added 22 torn strips of yellow dyed cotton fabric to write on and wrap around the empty thread reels to make it into a scroll. Originally the fabric was from a light blue bedroom curtain from John's flat in 1986, which I dyed yellow in the 90's (it didn't turned green, but it wasn't a clear yellow either). I then made 'new' curtains from it for the girls bedroom in our house in Canterbury.


If you click on the photo it will zoom in so you can read the text I wrote on the strips.

So this is the story of the materials I used to make up Kiama's Charm. Whilst we were cruising through Washington, Oregon and California I was, some of the time sitting in the back, assembling  2 charms everyday for them to be left behind somewhere on the way.


In my next posts I will show the places where we left them.



Saturday, 22 June 2013

Kiama's Charm - no 1

I left the first mark/decoration on the 18th of June in Florence - Oregon at  the car park of the supermarket Fred Meyer.


You see the trolley bay? Well there it is.


On the right of the bottom bar of the rail
Kiama loved Florence - Italy. She went there on a school trip and decided to use one of her sketches to create a site specific mural for the Rudolf Steiner School in Kings Langley in Hertfordshire, UK.
It will now be preserved and got a memorial plaque next to it.
Florence in Oregon is of course nothing like the one in Italy, but because of the name association and memories of a budding artist I decided that it would be a OK place for the first mark on my tribute trail to Kiama.

Thursday, 20 June 2013

The greatest gift is the present



Hi and welcome to my blog, especially if you came here after finding an unusual arty/crafty thing somewhere in the state of Washington, Oregon, or California.

I am on a road trip there with my husband and my best friend, Mary, who lives in washington, from the 17th until the 28th of June 2013.
I am a textile artist and live in Hertfordshire in the UK and i decided to leave some kind of mark behind whilst cruising through a part of America.
The idea was stimulated by the memories of my daughter Kiama Petit.



Kiama suddenly died last year on the 11th of May, within 10 days of falling ill from what was later discovered to be the 'forgotten' disease of Lemierre Syndrome.
She was an art student  in her final year at Norwich Univetsity College of the Arts, who awarded her with a post-humus first class honours degree for her work.
Kiama was interested in Participatory Art  and liked to get people involved in community enhancing projects.
One of these projects was Paper girl Norwich which involved a group of cyclists distributing 365 free art works given to her by 52 artists for the public of Norwich.
In another project she would write postive messages and secretely stuck them onto parked  bicycles to brighten up the day of the unsuspected owner.



She loved to do random acts of kindness and  enjoyed the element of surprise.

She lived her unexpected short life to the full and treasured every moment inviting and inspiring people to do the same.
We discovered she had written a Bucket List, which was printed out as a poster from which 1000 copies were  given away by the university  during the graduation show.
Feel free to download a copy here.

Kiama was 22 years old when she died, so I decided to leave 22 craft decorations behind during our trip in honour of her spirit.
Kiama never visited the USA but she had all intention to travel different parts of the world so we are also leaving some of her ashes on American soil with the wish that her spirit may touch who ever feels the connection.

If you came to this blog because you found 1 of the 22 decorations I would love it if you would leave me a comment, mentioning the number, written on the scroll and I promise I will get back to you.




Monday, 17 June 2013

Feeling The Blues

I had such good intentions to write at least once a week, but......there you go.
Life wasn't easy in the last 2 months, especially leading up to the first anniversary of Kiama's death. I was feeling the blues, like the  forget-me-nots in our garden.



The mind can be so powerful as I was reliving everything what happend last year. I also had some health issues to deal with, as I was diagnosed with Diabetes 2 and had and still have all kinds of doctors and hospital appointments. Luckily I don't need any medication or insuline, just diet and exercise. Although I do go to a yoga class once a week I should be doing a lot more exercise. Being a housewife without the cleaning work-ethos of my Dutch female ancestors, as I prefer doing my textiles instead, doesn't help the situation.
So I have been doing lots of walks over the last couple months. I got a friend who likes taking me out on walks because of the way we both look at nature - full of wonder and inspiration and with art and creation in mind.
I also get to discover a lot more of our  beautiful local country side.

Bluebell woods near Abbots Langley

Blue sheep near Potten End

I start feeling mentally and emotionally a lot better now. I went onto a meditation retreat for a week, as I really needed to take some time out being on the inside of myself - seeing things from a different, more neutral perspective.



Everything changes, so here I am in a different environment with new experiences and exciting adventures.
John and I flew to Seattle last Thursday to spend 3 weeks with our friend, there. Today we are picking up a motor home to start a road trip to Yosemite.